I have this uneasy feeling or rather in dilemma.
A person asked my opinion; his partner is still in contacts with the ex's..... is that not wrong? Hurm....what's is that means?
bw......to be continued.
Thursday, December 24, 2009
Sixth thoughts...
It's has been a little while I did not make any new posting of my thoughts ...blamed it on my busy working scheduled towards end of the year and plus for unknown reasons....not in a good mood I guess.
Nevertheless, my two brains are start working today and have something to share;
A friend of mine told me that he got to wake up damm early one fine morning to meet his love one, all the way as far as 450 km to & fro. He told me he was looking forward for this moment since he missed the day that he supposed the person 2 weeks ago due to some unknown reasons.... the loved one was away for a short course in neighbouring country and hardly in contacts since then.
People always said to know love is to be involved with it; true enough their relationship is going to be at first anniversary next month. During the period a lot of challenges he has to face, up and down, left and right, in and out and off course laughs and tears. To make it short it was not an easy relationship, at once.......now ok la he said.
However, he is still trying till todate and still sometimes that was a tense moment happen again. And he said the day before they meet up, they are still arguing over the phone and they nearly broke up as the loved one was provoking for a break. My friend was shocked and dissappointed., but some how they managed to reconcile. And this is not a first time.
He said; sometimes he also clueless about the future of this relationship, despite his commitment , responsibility and sincerity that he has demonstrated. He said, I don't know what would happen to them in a future............... he is caring from what I know.
As a man who listen to his story, I can only afford to offer a smile and pray for his success relationship. I just hope that my good friend will not be dissappointed as I know his love to this person is totally undoubt. Sometimes I really feel amazing how my friend can do such things to prove that his love is really a true love. He has surrended everything to the person he loves.
Like other always said .......aku pun tak tahu!
bw
Nevertheless, my two brains are start working today and have something to share;
A friend of mine told me that he got to wake up damm early one fine morning to meet his love one, all the way as far as 450 km to & fro. He told me he was looking forward for this moment since he missed the day that he supposed the person 2 weeks ago due to some unknown reasons.... the loved one was away for a short course in neighbouring country and hardly in contacts since then.
People always said to know love is to be involved with it; true enough their relationship is going to be at first anniversary next month. During the period a lot of challenges he has to face, up and down, left and right, in and out and off course laughs and tears. To make it short it was not an easy relationship, at once.......now ok la he said.
However, he is still trying till todate and still sometimes that was a tense moment happen again. And he said the day before they meet up, they are still arguing over the phone and they nearly broke up as the loved one was provoking for a break. My friend was shocked and dissappointed., but some how they managed to reconcile. And this is not a first time.
He said; sometimes he also clueless about the future of this relationship, despite his commitment , responsibility and sincerity that he has demonstrated. He said, I don't know what would happen to them in a future............... he is caring from what I know.
As a man who listen to his story, I can only afford to offer a smile and pray for his success relationship. I just hope that my good friend will not be dissappointed as I know his love to this person is totally undoubt. Sometimes I really feel amazing how my friend can do such things to prove that his love is really a true love. He has surrended everything to the person he loves.
Like other always said .......aku pun tak tahu!
bw
Monday, December 7, 2009
Fifth Thoughts...
Sayu terpisah
Hikayat indah kini hanya tinggal sejarah
Berhembus angin rindu
Begitu nyamannya terhidu wangian kasihmu
Hujan lebat mencurah kini
Bagaikan tiada henti
Kaulah laguku kau irama terindah
Tak lagi kudengari
Kau pergi... pergi...
Sepi tanpa kata
Terdiam dan kaku tak daya kau kulupa
Apa pun kata mereka
Biarkan kenangan berbunga di ranting usia
Hujan lebat mencurah kini
Bagaikan tiada henti
Kaulah laguku kau irama terindah
Tak lagi kudengari
Kau pergi... pergi...
Hujan lebat mencurah kini
Bagaikan tiada henti
Kaulah laguku kau irama terindah
Tak lagi kudengari
Kau pergi... pergi...
Kau pergi... pergi... Pergi...
....jangan lupa untuk kembali
bw
Hikayat indah kini hanya tinggal sejarah
Berhembus angin rindu
Begitu nyamannya terhidu wangian kasihmu
Hujan lebat mencurah kini
Bagaikan tiada henti
Kaulah laguku kau irama terindah
Tak lagi kudengari
Kau pergi... pergi...
Sepi tanpa kata
Terdiam dan kaku tak daya kau kulupa
Apa pun kata mereka
Biarkan kenangan berbunga di ranting usia
Hujan lebat mencurah kini
Bagaikan tiada henti
Kaulah laguku kau irama terindah
Tak lagi kudengari
Kau pergi... pergi...
Hujan lebat mencurah kini
Bagaikan tiada henti
Kaulah laguku kau irama terindah
Tak lagi kudengari
Kau pergi... pergi...
Kau pergi... pergi... Pergi...
....jangan lupa untuk kembali
bw
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Fourth Thoughts...
Totally disappointed...
I was rushing for an appointment, and yet it was called - off.
Gosh....
bw
I was rushing for an appointment, and yet it was called - off.
Gosh....
bw
Saturday, December 5, 2009
Third Thoughts...
Salam,
Moral of the story....you figure out yourself;
It is a lesson for all who have contempt / scorn for others.
A NICE ONE !!
Once upon a time in China , a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law.
In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with hermother-in-law at all. Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly.
Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even worse was that,
according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had tobow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li's poor husband great distress.
Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law' s bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it. Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs. She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.
Mr. Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, "Li-iL, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you."
Li-Li said,"Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do. "Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told Li-Li, "You can't use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious.Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving. Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspect you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her."Don't argue with her,obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen." Li-Li was so happy. She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.
Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law.. She remembered what Mr.Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law,and treated her like her own mother.
After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost
never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with.
The mother-in-law' s attitude toward Li-Li changed,and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in- law one could ever find.Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter. Li-Li's husband was veryhappy to see what was happening.
One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again She said,"Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep off the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her."
Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. "Li-Li, there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to
improve her health. The only poisonwas in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her."
HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? There is a wise Chinese saying:"The person who loves others will also be loved in return." God might be trying to work in another person's life through you. This is the meaning of " POWER OF LOVE" and human kind.
After all you have got nothing to lose but a lot to gain. "A candle loses nothing if it is used to light another one .
bw
Moral of the story....you figure out yourself;
It is a lesson for all who have contempt / scorn for others.
A NICE ONE !!
Once upon a time in China , a girl named Li-Li got married & went to live with her husband and mother-in-law.
In a very short time, Li-Li found that she couldn't get along with hermother-in-law at all. Their personalities were very different, and Li-Li was angered by many of her mother-in-law's habits. In addition, she criticized Li-Li constantly.
Days passed, and weeks passed. Li-Li and her mother-in-law never stopped arguing and fighting. But what made the situation even worse was that,
according to ancient Chinese tradition, Li-Li had tobow to her mother-in-law and obey her every wish. All the anger and unhappiness in the house was causing Li-Li's poor husband great distress.
Finally, Li-Li could not stand her mother-in-law' s bad temper and dictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it. Li-Li went to see her father's good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs. She told him the situation and asked if he would give her some poison so that she could solve the problem once and for all.
Mr. Huang thought for awhile, and finally said, "Li-iL, I will help you solve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tell you."
Li-Li said,"Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me to do. "Mr. Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes with a package of herbs. He told Li-Li, "You can't use a quick-acting poison to get rid of your mother-in-law, because that would cause people to become suspicious.Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs that will slowly build up poison in her body. Every other day prepare some delicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving. Now, in order to make sure that nobody suspect you, when she dies, you must be very careful to act very friendly towards her."Don't argue with her,obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen." Li-Li was so happy. She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot of murdering her mother-in-law.
Weeks went by, and months went by, and every other day, Li-Li served the specially treated food to her mother-in-law.. She remembered what Mr.Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, so she controlled her temper, obeyed her mother-in-law,and treated her like her own mother.
After six months had passed, the whole household had changed. Li-Li had practiced controlling her temper so much that she found that she almost
never got mad or upset. She hadn't had an argument with her mother-in-law in six months because she now seemed much kinder and easier to get along with.
The mother-in-law' s attitude toward Li-Li changed,and she began to love Li-Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relatives that Li-Li was the best daughter-in- law one could ever find.Li-Li and her mother-in-law were now treating each other like a real mother and daughter. Li-Li's husband was veryhappy to see what was happening.
One day, Li-Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again She said,"Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep off the poison from killing my mother-in-law. She's changed into such a nice woman, and I love her like my own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison I gave her."
Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. "Li-Li, there's nothing to worry about. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you were vitamins to
improve her health. The only poisonwas in your mind and your attitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the love which you gave to her."
HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how they will treat you? There is a wise Chinese saying:"The person who loves others will also be loved in return." God might be trying to work in another person's life through you. This is the meaning of " POWER OF LOVE" and human kind.
After all you have got nothing to lose but a lot to gain. "A candle loses nothing if it is used to light another one .
bw
Second Thought...
Below are some thoughts for viewing;
"Intelligence is when you spot a flaw in your boss’s reasoning. Wisdom is when you refrain from pointing it out." - James Dent
“It is wiser to find out than to suppose” - Mark Twain quotes
“The brain is a wonderful organ. It starts working the moment you get up in the morning and does not stop until you get into the office.” - Robert Frost quotes
“Your intelligence is measured by those around you; if you spend your days with idiots you seal your own fate.” - anonymous
“The sign of an intelligent people is their ability to control their emotions by the application of reason” - Marya Mannes quotes
“Like many intellectuals, he was incapable of saying a simple thing in a simple way” - Marcel Proust quotes
What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?
- Jean Jacques Rousseau (1712-1778) Swiss political philosopher and essayist.
Without wisdom, knowledge is more stupid than ignorance. - Unknown Source
Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something. - Plato (BC 427-BC 347) Greek philosopher.
Many are destined to reason wrongly; others, not to reason at all; and others, to persecute those who do reason. - Voltaire
Reason gains all people by compelling none. - Aaron Hill
Strong reasons make strong actions. - William Shakespeare
The madman is not the man who has lost his reason. He is the man who has lost everything except his reason. - Gilbert K. Chesterton
bw
"Intelligence is when you spot a flaw in your boss’s reasoning. Wisdom is when you refrain from pointing it out." - James Dent
“It is wiser to find out than to suppose” - Mark Twain quotes
“The brain is a wonderful organ. It starts working the moment you get up in the morning and does not stop until you get into the office.” - Robert Frost quotes
“Your intelligence is measured by those around you; if you spend your days with idiots you seal your own fate.” - anonymous
“The sign of an intelligent people is their ability to control their emotions by the application of reason” - Marya Mannes quotes
“Like many intellectuals, he was incapable of saying a simple thing in a simple way” - Marcel Proust quotes
What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?
- Jean Jacques Rousseau (1712-1778) Swiss political philosopher and essayist.
Without wisdom, knowledge is more stupid than ignorance. - Unknown Source
Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools, because they have to say something. - Plato (BC 427-BC 347) Greek philosopher.
Many are destined to reason wrongly; others, not to reason at all; and others, to persecute those who do reason. - Voltaire
Reason gains all people by compelling none. - Aaron Hill
Strong reasons make strong actions. - William Shakespeare
The madman is not the man who has lost his reason. He is the man who has lost everything except his reason. - Gilbert K. Chesterton
bw
First Thought....
Salam,
Finally, with a little help from others, I’ve successfully created my own blog. In launching this blog, I may be little bit late, but better late than never, like TDM who at his 84 is still actively blogging and has millions of followers.
Hopefully, with this new channel of information age, I wish to communicate with others..... and the loved ones. And still a lot more to learn to make this blogging really exciting.
bw
Finally, with a little help from others, I’ve successfully created my own blog. In launching this blog, I may be little bit late, but better late than never, like TDM who at his 84 is still actively blogging and has millions of followers.
Hopefully, with this new channel of information age, I wish to communicate with others..... and the loved ones. And still a lot more to learn to make this blogging really exciting.
bw
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